I have been missing in action this last week. I have been nursing an aching heart.
Our job is the best job in the world. In the entire world. Because we love what we do so much, with the heavy heavy emotional investment we make each day, when things go south it takes a toll on our spirits. Because we can't go into any specifics whatsoever on our blogs, I can only say this: when students make less than stellar choices and parents become involved it can open up a world of hurt for everyone.
This was brought home tenfold Monday as my husband got a call at work from my daughter's middle school advisor, who ranted about our daughter's work habits. It's strange how things work, that this phone call came right in the middle of my own sensitive dealings with students and parents. I really needed the reminder; I became so angry and defensive at what felt like an attack on my own kid. It helped me see the parent perspective instead of only the teacher's.
Everything is ok now. At least I hope everything is ok. I tried as best as I could to let my parents and kiddos know that I care for them, and my job is to help nurture kindness and compassion as well as mathematical thinking and reading comprehension.
I still can't quite shake the heavy feeling in my heart, though.
So sorry for the yuckiness you're going through right now. It does feel like a stab in the heart when things turn south in a school situation. Praying that a little break and a little rest will bring peace and clarity.
ReplyDeleteMegan
I Teach. What's Your Super Power?
Thanks, Megan. I'm feeling pretty peaceful right now. Long weekends are good for the soul! Hope you are enjoying your break, too.
DeleteHeather
The relationships we build with students and parents are very delicate sometimes. I have had some difficult situations this year too. A fellow staff member reminded me that as long as we are genuine and respectful in our communications we are staying true to our job. That person also reminded me that some of the most memorable work we do is to teach students how to treat each other and how to treat adults.
ReplyDeleteEmilyK
Such sage words of wisdom, Emily. Thanks for the reminder to be true and kind.
DeleteHeather
The parent/student/teacher relationship can be a slippery slope. It's just important that everyone knows how much you care and it sounds as if you've done that :)
ReplyDeleteElizabeth
Fun in Room 4B
Elizabeth, isn't that the truth. Thanks for the pep talk! I needed it after last week!
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